Where they hide
- GitHub commit history for engineers — recent activity, language preferences, project types.
- Industry-specific Slack/Discord communities — way higher signal than LinkedIn.
- Conference speaker lists — proven communicators with recent talks.
- Author bylines — Substack, Medium, technical blogs.
- Open-source maintainers — clearly motivated by the work, not the title.
The first message
Three rules:
- Specific. Reference something they actually did. "Loved your post on X." Not "I see you're a senior engineer."
- Short. 80 words max. Specifics beat brochures.
- Concrete. Role, location/remote, comp range, contact. Don't make them ask.
Bad: "Hi! Are you open to new opportunities? We have an exciting role…"
Good: "Saw your GoLang/Postgres benchmark post — I'm hiring a Sr. Backend Eng at [Company] doing similar work, remote-first US, $180–$220 + equity, full role here: [link]."
Following up
One follow-up after 5 days. Then nothing. The fastest way to ruin a relationship is to message 4 times.
Building a long-term pipeline
Most "no" answers today are "yes" 18 months later. Tag interesting candidates and check in once a quarter with relevant updates — not asks. The relationship compounds.